Changing the Thought Process

This is more about how we think and how we bring out our thoughts in real life. The thought process is how we get our thoughts into the real world and try to do what we think is correct. We try to find the truth about us everywhere and with this we forget that the truth is actually within ourselves and therefore we should know what we really are and stop living this fake life and try to be more honest about our feelings. There has always been a question in my mind, that why do we have to answer the questions the way the interviewer wants, and would we even be happy if we could crack the interview or would we be happier if we could get in by telling them what we actually are and what we honestly feel and think. The corruption starts there itself by doing something which we think is right, but is actually not and it just seems like that from the outside. Following this is not easy as we don’t know about our skills and where our talent actually lies and sometimes even if we know about it, we are confused if we are actually desired to do that or just need to follow what others are doing and this way a tree which could bear fruits gets uprooted before it even grows.

     Thinking about a lot of these things might not make perfect sense to everyone as we have got used to live life in a certain way and are scared of changes as we don’t know what will happen if we change or try to be different, even a person who knows that he is good at something is scared to go for it as it could be the case that he is brought up with certain rules and regulations where he has been told that certain things are wrong and it could so happen that those same things are right according to him and hence due to these shackles he doesn't get to do what he wants and lives with whatever he has. He then has to move on, sacrificing all that he could do and then just pretend to be happy with his life..  

       A smile on your face always doesn't show that your happy, some people just fake it because they know that in today's world there is no place for pity and this way your hope of doing something or getting something in your own way gets crushed inside, so what we all basically need to do is change our thought process, we need to bring a change to this world and we need to get things done the right way. No one is telling to break any rules and regulations but understanding those rules is more important and if changes are needed then we have to try to get those changes made through suggestions, innovations, new ideas and then get them worked upon accordingly to make things a little better to live with.